4. Lost and Found - sons of the Father

The father in the parable in (Luke 15:11-31) is concerned about both of his sons, the younger 'prodigal' son and the elder 'responsible' son. the story which had mainly been about the younger sons choice to leave and then return home is dramatically switched and focuses upon the elder son's attitude and state of heart. The father has to go out and again call his son into his house. The party is in full swing; the fatted calf has been killed; the music is playing; and the dancing has started...yet he heart of the elder son when he hears what is happening stubbornly refuses to enter the father's house. The younger son doesn't deserve it and he feels himself unjustly dealt with, his self-righteousness is plainly seen. when discussing with his father he says that he has been 'slaving away, following orders' yet when the father gives him another request to enter the celebration, he refuses...he considers that the father is wrong...he is better, more righteous, more just!

How often do we refuse to enter the celebration of those who find Christ, or we don't even think others worth speaking to about Jesus. The Fathers heart is full of compassion to all his children that are lost, He desires that they are able to enter into His house, in which Jesus Himself says there are many rooms of which He is preparing for those that are the Lords (John 14:1-4) a place which is ours to live in and enjoy for eternity. We need to enter into Christ and experience the presence of the Father.

Consider even when you are attending church, do you actually consciously enter into the Fathers presence? The church should be a place of experiencing God in all His capacity, as Father, Son and Holy Spirit. We might consider that as long as I am a member of the house - that therefore all is ok, that you consider yourself in the Father's house. The parable we have been looking at reveals that we can be misdirected in our attitudes towards god, and think that the Christian life is just about working, serving and not celebrating the grace, love, mercy and forgiveness that is ours and our brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ most wonderfully won for us by His death upon the cross.

We should be living in His house...a spiritual house...where all is ours in Christ, but how often do we realise this and still think that we are outside and lost, we keep our minds full of a poverty mentality when it comes to what we have as Christians - wonderfully in Ephesians 1:3 it is our heavenly Father 'Who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ Jesus' (NIV). We need to trust our Father God in that He knows best as we are His children.

Matthew Armstrong
Issue 19 26th February 2010
Blantyre.

3. Lost and Found - receiving the blessings of the Father.

The story of the LOST son (Luke 15:11-32) becomes a story of a FOUND son. The moment of the embrace of the father is a wonderfully powerful one, as the father it could be said 'fell upon his neck' and that he 'kisses him many times'. The son that was lost is now found in the presence of his father. Oh how we need to find ourselves in the embrace of the Father, this is wonderful in itself, the father as our Father in heavens mercy is not just embrace, but forgiveness, and His forgiveness is complete, it involves restoration through relationship.

After the embrace and repentance of the son, what the father does is shocking to our often religious and cautious selves. I want to focus for this article on Luke 15:22, "But, the father said to his servant, 'Quick! Bring the robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.'" This is outrageous, has the father gone mad, he is obviously not thinking properly and overcome with emotion...No...this is our Fathers way, this is grace, not based in what we have done for Him, but in His love and forgiveness as we give ourselves broken and repentant before Him, humbled by our own immorality ad selfishness. He calls for the BEST robe. The Lord wants the best for those who are His children, should we settle for anything else, we are in Christ, then, let us receive His blessings into our hearts. The servants were to bring the robe and put it on the son, an act of receiving and accepting honour that wasn't deserved, we need to be humbled to receive it from the Lord, an obvious sign of our sonship in Christ. It is a position given to us, based in our humanity, confirmed by repentance.

What of the ring for his hand and sandals for his feet, what a blessing! The ring is a sign of authority from the Father, we are His, and we have access to Him through Christ Jesus our Lord. The sandals speak of blessing and freedom, the son that had become a slave, who returned to be just a paid worker, now is given another visible sign that he is a SON. New sandals for his tired and worn feet; now he could go about his fathers business with a new sense of belonging, refreshed to serve. Again the son had to allow the servants to put them on him, he had to surrender all his thoughts that he lacked self-worth and let his father give him a sense of worth. It is the same with our Father in heaven. The greatest servant of them all is Christ, He came to serve and save the lost. Will we let Jesus do the work of the Father in and upon us, will we receive the blessings of the Father that allow us to live in Christ with authority to be that is by grace, and freedom by love. We can not earn this in Christ, it is always given, it is part of the truly being found.

Matthew Armstrong
Blantyre,
January 24th 2010.

2. Lost and Found - moving towards the Fathers house

We continue to consider the story of the lost son (Luke 15:11-32), the story is very clear that the younger son made a definite choice to go in the direction away from his fathers house. He asked for his inheritance and took it; remarkably the father gave it to him. To the father this was a great cost. The sons should have been working in the fathers house and by living and prospering together the fathers' wealth and therefore their own would have increased. The younger son shows signs of impatience, he wanted it now and he could not wait - the world today is much like this, and in the process others are trampled on, just like the father and the older son in the story, they are disregarded, they are the unwanted family. How often do we prefer something or others rather than God and His family - the Church. God is treated as unnecessary for living.

In our lives today we often make small choices that are in the direction away from the Fathers house, away from the true way of inheriting Christ. We might not consider ourselves as 'prodigals' but in the depths of our hearts we find ourselves along way from home, emotionally tired, spiritually hungry, without comfort or help and sometimes desperate - in need of turning back to the Father in heaven, least we begin to destroy ourselves. It seems at times that there are many who have been in such situations for a long time...we must decide in our minds and hearts to move towards God, and as we do so wonderfully He draws closer to us (See James 4:8). No matter how far we have gone away from God, we can turn, repent of our sin, and move towards the Fathers house.

In this spiritual journey which we live, breathe and move, we need to constantly be aware of the direction we are travelling. As the lost son drew closer to his father's house, the father was watching and waiting and moved closer to his son, so it is with our Heavenly Father, He has chosen to move towards us by His precious Son Jesus Christ. He has left His house, breaking the rules...shocking the world...moving towards us in grace. Let nothing hinder us from moving in this direction, the way of grace; of acceptance; of love and mercy; of forgiveness and restoration. How many people are half hearted in this spiritual direction, they will repent but will not move towards God physically, emotionally and spiritually - it is in the Father's arms, in His house, in eating His food and wearing His clothes where we find ourselves His children again. His house is the house which restores, feeds, and loves with all mercy.

Matthew Armstrong
Blantyre
Issue 17: 18th Jan 2010

1. Lost and Found - the embrace of the Father

The story of the prodigal son or the lost son is one of the most moving stories in the New Testament. We find this story in Luke's Gospel only in Chapter 15:11-32. There is however more to the story than just a lost son and in this series we will explore a few different angles of looking at this story as we also explore it as a congregation together.

I want to briefly consider one of the changes in the lost sons' attitdue which can be observed from before and after the embrace with his father on his return home. This change is in his plan and motive for returning - revealing what he thought about his father. In Malawi this motive is clearly a problem and is often unspoken about or not dealt with in many churches. There are many "pastors" and church attendees who have made the Fathers' house a business venture, and many attend churches with the hope they will become the hired help. For as much as many people have the need for work and employment and may be part of the initial reason for some church attendance, an experience like that of the son who returned home and had his father run to greet him, breaking the cultural expectations of his day. A compassionate embrace and kiss put an end to such primary aspirations and expectations that were based in his heart, mind and stomach (See Luke 15:18-22), the phrase 'make me like one of your hired help' has been removed by a real experience of God's confirming love, we are His children. We might not be expecting the embrace of love by God, but He will give it as we return /repent and move towards Him, even if our full intentions are not at first 100% for God. God's perfect love drives away our fears and allows us to be His Children, forgiving us and fully embracing us.

The loving embrace of the Father is by grace...it is about the restoration of relationship and not the approval of a business plan. Such a real experience of God is what we should be concerned with; it should be a God like this that we declare to others, a confirming love based on our sonship in Christ, rather than our performance and ability to serve. The returning son probably smelt bad, he had worked in the pig pens and had travelled along way without money to buy new clothes or to polish his appearance - he came as he was. We need to come to God as we are, without pretending to be better, the Almighty Father accepts those who come to Him through Christ despite our faults and sins, but as we experience His embrace - all is changed...our hearts are stirred with having recieved compassion when we did not deserve it. We are given the wonderful right to be children of God.

Matthew Armstrong
Blantyre.
Issue 16: 10th Jan 2010